New Years Eve Experience

Hi, as i promised before, i wanna share my new year's eve experience nowww.. A bit late, i know since i promise it will be posted on Saturday, but i had tried to write this post as soon as possible, and this post had been finished on Sunday, actually.. before an accident on my computer, it was error, and everything i had written was lost. ALL! And I rewrite it now.. Haha *sad laugh* And badly to said, I can't write it as good as before. U will lose your sense of writing if u had already wrote it with all of your heart and it was error and lost, right? *sigh*

So, my new year was bad and good at one time. Let me tell you all the detail. Hahaha..
My friend, Angely invited me to celebrated the end of year together with her boyfriend and also Mery. Angel really wish that she can watch the firecracker at Central Park. And as u know, if we watch the new year firecrackers, it means it will be started at 12 AM, and everybody had no idea how we got home safely at the very early morning. So I suggested to book a hotel. We tried to checked the cheapest, nearest, and most worthed hotel to stay for one night, but since it is new year, mostly the hotels are so expensive and full booked. Finally Angel suggested to go to cafe or somewhere..
Btw fyi, none of us drove car or something, so we all depending to public transportation. My mom and dad was told me to not join at first, but finally they gave up and let me join. hahaha..

Bad news, the firecrackers at CP held on January 1st, on 19.00; not on 00.00 (Angel read it from CP's website. But I still wondering how can they didn't play the firecrackers on the end of the year). So we decided to met at TA instead, wishing it won't be as crowded as CP. We met TA on about 5pm for having a dinner at Jala-jala. I met one of my lecture there. Hahaha..

Toni - Angely - Me - Mery

Then we decided to watched The Hobbit 3D. This movie was so long, about 3 hours, so it just ended on 1 AM which mean i missed the new year firecrackers!

Me and Mery

As we went out from the cinema, TA was already closed and the street was so quiet. No cars or taxi outside and honestly, i was starting be panic, however I tried to stay cool. Lol. Angel just thought wanna called taxi until suddenly there was Blue Bird came in (on the morning, 1 am, oh man) and we went to PIK.

Angel said that PIK has a lot of cafes and karaoke places and it opens for 24 hours, so we can spend the rest of day there. First, we planned to karaoke, but since it was new years eve, it was a bit expensive so we cancelled and preferred to playing cards on the cafe instead. It was my first time to stay outside on the very early morning, with no plan, no place to stay, no car. It was crazy, horrible, but fun at one time. We walked along PIK street to finding which cafe we would like to stay for the rest of the day. But mostly of the cafes have jedak-jeduk music, and many women were throwing up when they went out the cafe. Hahahaa.. But finally we found a good cafe that really attract me by its roof  (which more beautiful in the night by its lamp) and its decoration---I didn't take any picture of the cafe, so I take it on google :p. It was Callista Garden :D

Callista Garden outside

Callista Garden decoration

We were eating and playing cards there. We ordered a pan of ..... (i don't remember the menu's name), but it was cheese pizza and I ordered avocado juice as my drink as well. A heavy menu on the early morning XD

After spending about 2 hours at Callista Cafe, I though bad things had already end, but I was totally wrong! The bad things didn't end, but just starting there.. U know what, the cafe and karaoke aren't open for 24 hours! So we were struggling on the street at 4 am since everywhere are already closed. My mom and dad can kill me if they know this, but i sensor this part when i told them the story. Lol

So it was so desperate, we try to walk to somewhere but everywhere had already closed. And once again, nobody there. no car, the street was damnly quiet and honestly, i starting be panic and I really show my panic face this time. ahahahahaa..

Just skip to the last, finally we got a taxi (after walking a thousand miles, exaggerated of mine) and we went to Seven Eleven at PV wishing it would be open for 24 hours, and thanks God, Sevel save my life. We spend the rest of the day at sevel, playing cards and went home at 8am by Transjakarta. That was really freak but I really wish one day we can go there together again, by car and have a good planning, of course. hahahaa.

Here are some photos of us:

BEFORE --- still fresh

Look at Angel, she was really shining and happy that night, coz her BF was on her side :D

AFTER --- after walking so long, panic, and finally terdampar at Sevel. U can see, outside is dark.. (eh i dont know the darkness is come from the glass type or it's really reflected outside condition. Lol). But luckily, we still remember how to smile at the very tiring day. Hahahaa..

at sevel on the very early morning

Never do these freak things anymore in my whole life.. *finger crossed*

Helloo, it is January 3rd lohh.. A bit late but let me say, "Happy New Yearrrrr!! Proudly present something fresh from oven: The Big 2013--Fabulous Me". Yap this is a sudden best idea of mine to make a theme for guiding me for the whole year ahead: Fabulous Me. I don't know what will I do for this year, I have already written some resolutions, not share here, and it isn't something 'big'. But whatever it is, whatever i will do, everything will be fabulous when I lend a hand. Hahahaa! (it's not a narsis or something u name it, but it more like a motivation for myself :D)

Oh ya, forget to mention, I really grateful that 2013 is coming, that means the prediction of "2012 is the end of the world" is totally wrong, thanks God. However I'm not feel 100% relieve. Some or many times I feel like earth is really in a bad condition. I just wish everybody finally get consciousness how important to heal it soon, since I see everybody still do some simple things that make earth be worse, such as: i'm not offending anybody here, but I try to say the truth. Many of my university friends who live in a boarding house usually pay a rent for a month that including unlimited water, electricity, etc.,etc. And since it is unlimited, they really don't care in using water, and the worst is electricity. They keep their AC in on condition however they know they will in outside till nite. And a dozen bad things that I'm sure u know what it is. And also when everybody still using plastic anywhere in any occasion. I take my Mom as an example. I don't know if she is a plastic fans or what, but she likes to take the plastic from the market however she knows she doesn't need it. And I'm the one who always complaining her to refuses plastic if she doesn't really need it. ckck.

I wanna share a strange phenomenon that happened on the last days on 2012. I forget the date, but it really a shocking event. So it was afternoon and the sky was so clear and sun was so bright. There was a little rain before but it had stopped, and as I said that the sky was already good. I was lying reading The Hunger Games and suddenly, there was a very big-very loud-very terrible-thunderbolt! The sound of thunderbolt is about 5-7 seconds, and I think this is the real "cetar membahana badai halilintar- YouNameIt" of Syahrini. I can feel my house a bit shaking and luckily, nothing happen to my house. You know, I was so afraid if the thunderbolt would ruin my house or something, Lol. I don't know how and why suddenly there was a big-very very loud of thunderbolt in the bright afternoon. But nothing happen, just a seconds of heart attack, luckily. And my Mom heard that one of my neighbor's house, his wall was broken by the thunderbolt. So I really please everybody can be "The Emissary of Global Warming". hahahhaa..

Oh ya Btw, I really wanna share my experience of how I celebrating my 31 December-1 January. But I think it will be fun if there are some photos. But since the photos are all in my friend's handphone and I will take it on Saturday, so keep tune until Saturday yaahh.. Babaaaaii :*

Merry Christmas! x Etude Nail Polish Christmas Edition

Hello all of my lovely bala bala.. First of all let me wish you a Merry Christmas! :D I'm so glad that we really survive on the last 21 Dec (Lol) and are allowed to celebrating this wonderful Christmas once more time. It's just counting for the end of this big 2012 year and welcome to the other new pages of the 2013. Really wish we can have a wonderful days on the next 2013. #finger crossed

Still taking about Christmas, I wanna share my recently use: 'Christmas Nail Polish Edition'. It's so gorgeous that I really can't stand for. :s It is Etude! 

Etude is launching 4 products for Christmas Edition, called "If Story Nail Kit". And the one I using now is "If Story Nail Kit III". Since my camera has a bad quality, so I only select some photos of mine to share and prefer to take the other from internet.. XP

"If Story Nail Kit III" is consist of 2 nail polishes, (1) If Snow of Love, and (2) Falls on the Christmas Tree. So it also called as: #03 If Snow of Love Falls on the Christmas Tree. Is it so sweet? I just realize that some brands of nail polish give a sweet name for their products. :)

picture 1: the box is so kawaii~

(1) If Snow of Love -- transparent color with white glitters and pink love.

(2) Falls on the Christmas Tree -- transparent color with green, red, gold glitters. -- it bring your nail looks like a christmas tree. (I love lovee lovvee this so much. It is so bling-bling and make me feel chic yet elegant. Lol)

picture 2

Are you wondering now?? Ok, let see how it's looks.

There are some combination here: 

1. I combine: If Snow of Love + Falls on the Christmas Tree. (left)

2. I'm using Revlon: Love Her Madly (see, the other sweet name right?) as the base colour + Falls on the Christmas Tree (see picture num 6, my left forefinger)

3. Revlon: Love Her Madly + If Snow of Love(right) -- this looks like I use crack kutek, isn't it? :D

picture 3

picture4

 4. Falls on the Christmas Tree

picture 5

5. Overall view

picture 6

I use Missha as my top coat btw. To summarize, the color i like to the most is Falls on the Christmas Tree for this Christmas (pict num 5). But for my casual day, i prefer to use combination num 3 (Revlon: Love Her Madly + If Snow of Love(pic 1) :D

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The other gorgeous series of Etude If Story Nail Kit Christmas Edition are:

psst: if u notice, there's no pink love on my finger while I'm using If Snow of Love. That's because i already use shocking pink as my base color, so I prefer to save the cute love for next time :)

Thank you princess etude house online shop as my sponsor for this time. If you guys admiring and envy mine, just order it soon on the link I share. It is the trusted online shop :D Sorry for the bad quality of photos.
Merry Christmas!

Hy! Sebelomnya gw suka banget deh sama background, efek santa claus and his sleigh, sama waving snowman yang lewat2 dan goyang2 di header blog gw, if u r not notice it. Thanks to blognation.com <3>

Ok, finally I back now on the other important dates on December. Yap, the previous important date was on 12 Dec 2012 that make it be so damn special, coz it was written as 12-12-12, that won't happen until the next thousand year. Where will i be at that period? hahaa.. But unluckily, i didn't write any post at the special date since i didn't have any idea. :|

But here I am, coming back on the special date on December, 21st which is come on today. I guess everybody is already know apa sih spesialnya dari tanggal hari ini? Yaps, it is related to Mayan prediction of world ending in 2012. Do you believe them? :)

Just say the truth, gw bukan tipe orang yang percaya dengan hal-hal yang ga masuk diakal. Saat lu ngobrol sama gw dan mengutarakan suatu pernyataan atau alasan, kalau pernyataan kalian ga masuk logika, siap-siap dibanjiri berbagai pertanyaan aneh gw yang baru akan berenti kalau akhirnya gw menemukan kelogisan dari pernyataan kalian, atau saat gw akhirnya uda males mendebatkan dan uda pasang muka i-don't-care-whatever-u-said. Hahahaa.. Tapi untuk ketidak-masuk-akalan kali ini yang mengatakan kiamat di tahun 2012, sejujurnya gw percaya ga percaya. 

Berbagai pendapat tentang bener salahnya ini sebenernya uda heboh banget dari kira-kira tahun 2009an, dan makin seru saat film 2012 meluncur di bioskop2 kesayangan anda pada tahun 2010. Ngantrinya bokkk... sembako kalah! Gw inget waktu itu gw nonton aja uda hari kesekian tuh film tayang, dan itu ngantri masih ajubila, dari pintu masuk bioskop dan muter2 beberapa putaran di dalemnya. Akhirnya gw dan temen gw dengan santainya jalan langsung ke barisan paling depan dan mendekati seorang tante2 yang bermuka judes, dan temen gw nekad minta nitip beli tiket. Gw saat itu uda serem2 aja takut disemprot, eh taunya si tante langsung tersenyum dan nanya, mo nonton apa dan jem berapa punya. Waw, don't judge people by their fierce face is does happen!

Nah, balik lagi, katanya sih yah mustinya kiamat jatuhnya di hari ini, karena di kalender suku maya hanya berenti di tanggal ini (?). Gw ga tau sih, gw ga pernah baca official artikelnya, abisnya tanggal2nya beda2 kayanya di tiap artikel. Cuma just say, if it really happen today.. hmmm... what should I do? It is 20.20 now (hey, lets make a wish! I wish doomsday is not happen today, amen), so it's only about 4 hours left. Oh God! I still have a dozen hundred thousand things to do in my live. But, just in case, if it really happen..umm..maybe this is my last post... (eaaa really really drama queen and i hate it but i wanna do this for now. LOL), i wanna write a long long long post for today :)

Here are some of my thoughts when I ask myself, what will I do if today is the end of world?

1. I wanna ask my close friends, if they have a-two things they wanna tell to me.. secret, mind, impression, anything..

2. I wanna make a list of "things I haven't do on my life". Such as: celebrating Christmas in somewhere snowing.. traveling around the world, at least i have to go to Paris and others romantic places.. etc. not to mention here.

3. I wanna make a list of "what have i got and done (ALL about my achievement) on my whole life" (i wanna think only good things on my last seconds), and send my sincere gratitude to Him..

4. Turn the lock and  get my self bowing and singing a prayer on the corner. (waw, how religious I am!)

5. Eat as much as i can. Sing as much as i can sing. Talking and joking with my friends.

6. Say "sorry", "thank you" and describe "how much i love them and they never know how much they really mean to me" to the people that really mean to me.

and many more...

But in fact, i do nothing with all of my thoughts i have mention above. Hahahaaaa.. Maybe after this I will do the second and third, if i'm not lazy :)). But at least gw seneng dan bersyukur banget setidaknya tahun 2012 hampir habis, dan tanggal 21 desember juga hampir habis, dan belom dan semoga ga akan ada something yg menyeramkan terjadi. Padahal sejak memasuki tahun 2012, gw uda parno membayangkan dunia bakal ancur pelahan2. Abisnya gw mikirnya kalau, kalau yaaa.. hanya kalau.. kalau bener2 it does happen gitu, ga mungkin mendadak glek glek glek, ancur gitu bumi. Pasti dia slow motion gt kan? Balas dendam yang perlahan itu lebih menyakitkan loh. #eh. Nah jadi kalau akhirnya 21 desember berganti menjadi 22. Manusia bisa merayakan natal dengan normal dan manusia bisa sekali lagi menikmati indahnya kembang api tahun 2013, gw merasa jauh lebih lega karena ramalan kali ini ga tepat untungnya. Hahahaa..

Ya udah ah. Pokonya gw sih sangat mengimani kalau everything is gonna be ok today, tomorrow, and forever. Jadi mending pada ke mall aja berburu diskon2 menjelang natal dan tahun baru, dan jangan lupa kado natalnya buat gw yah.. Gw sudah menjadi anak baik kok 0:) Santa Claus is coming! teng teng teng *suara lonceng*

Hari raya paling menyenangkan

Oh la la.. kita telah memasuki masa2 dimana salju turun dan menumpuk, dekorasi serba merah dan hijau, lampu warna warni di pohon2 cemara, dan lagu2 natal, tentu saja.. Wohoo.. santa is coming. Hah.. betapa bahagia damai sejahteranya suasana hati gw saat2 seperti ini. Berikut adalah hari2 raya yang paling menyenangkan bagi gw:

1. Hari Raya Idul Fitri -- hari perayaan bagi umat Islam, gw sejujurnya ga tau apa yang dirayakan, cuma setau gw ini adalah perayaan terbesar dari semua perayaan orang beragama Islam. Yang bikin seneng apalagi kalau bukan libur panjang! Tapi gw ga sepicik itu, gw suka lebaran karena dekornya yang ijo2 daon pandan menyejukkan mata dan pikiran, serta suasananya terasa begitu bersahabat. Semua orang terasa sangat baik dan saling memaafkan di bulan suci ini, gimana ga terasa menyenangkan dan damai coba? Seandainya setiap hari semua orang bisa bersikap seperti saat mereka puasa menahan emosi dan saling memaafkan seperti saat mereka saling memaafkan, damainya dunia :)

2. Hari Raya Imlek -- Tahun baru orang Chinese. Yang menyenangkan disini tentu saja karena angpaonya dong, hohoh :)) Tapi gw suka sama suasana Imlek (atau xinjia biasa orang bilangnya) saat gw masih kecil, karena gw bisa berpartisipasi kepo2 sediain barang2. Berbagai makanan macam permen, kuaci, kacang, manisan, aseman, makan2an berat untuk makan dimalam xinjia yang enak2 banget cuma bisa disantap setaon sekali. Belom lagi ada tradisi buat memakai produk baru, mulai dari baju, celana, sepatu, dll. Ga musti lengkap semuanya baru juga sih, pokonya at least pas hari perayaan kita pake baju baru lah. Pokonya tentram abis deh.. Cuma sayang sejak gw masuk kuliah, xinjia mulai terasa hilang keistimewaannya. Bagaimana tidak, setiap xinjia gw pasti lagi ujian akhir! Kembalikan masa2 indah ituuuu..

3. Hari ulang tahun gw -- di perayaan yang ini campur aduk sih. Seneng juga sedih juga karena makin tua. Senengnya yah karena merasa spesial aja. Gw seneng mengkoleksi ucapan2 ultah dari orang2. Koleksi jumlahnya sih sebenerya. Lol! Makin banyak ucapan makin merasa disayangi dan dihargai sebagai manusia gitu.. Dan juga ucapan dan wishes ultah yang paling mengharukan biasanya gw save. Makanya di ultah gw yang terakhir di taon ini, gw hide aja tanggalnya. Karena pertama, gw sedih mengingat gw uda tua. Kedua karena gw males orang2 yang ga deket atau bahkan ga dikenal pada tau. Ketiga, karena gw pengen liat dari temen2 deket gw siapa yang ingat. Menyenangkan sekali ada beberapa orang yang sangat amat gw ga sangka malah ucapin ultah gw. Malah orang2 yang gw pikir bakal ucapin malah ngucapin setelah harinya atau bahkan ga ucapin sama sekali. Ckck. Dan wishes terbaik tahun ini datang dari seorang sobat dari SMA (sebenenrya gw kenal dia dari SMP, cuma deketnya pas SMA), aduh dia kasih gw wishes sih baik bener, sampe pas gw cerita ke mak gw, mak gw sampe kaget betapa sweetnya temen gw ini. Hahhaa..

4. Christmas -- Hari kelahiran Tuhan Yesus yang jatuh di tgl 25 Desember setiap tahunnya. Walau gw ga pernah pergi ke pesta natal atau tukeran kado, tapi gw suka banget dengan semua senandung natal dimana2.. Holy Night, White Christmas, Noel Noel (ga tau judulnya), dll.. Gw suka sama suasana natal yang dirayakan di western country sih sebenernya, padahal gw ga pernah kesana! Cuma menonton film saat setting natal telah membangkitkan dan memberikan kebahagiaan tersendiri ke gw. Putih2 salju berbaur dengan ijo2 pohon cemara yang berbaur dengan warna2 cerah lainnya dari lampu2 neon kecil berkelap kelip. Jubah2 musim dingin, sarung tangan dan penutup telinga berbulu berwarna merah cerah, what a best combination! Dan hal2 lain yang membuat gw suka tentang natal pernah gw tulis di edisi natal tahun lalu, it's a christmas! Mungkin tulisan gw tentang natal kali ini terlalu cepat, makanya gw cuma bahas dikit. Mungkin kalau gw niat dan ada inspirasi, gw akan meliput another good news about christmas. 

Sekarang gw pamit duluu, bagi yang mau kasih gw kado natal boleh yah dititipin dulu ke Santa, wohoooo.. Bahaiii ;)

I never like Goodbye -- Breaking Dawn

One thing I don't like the most is to say goodbye, whatever the kind of goodbye. 

I know sure that life is always about Hello and Goodbye, and the worst thing to happen in life is about Goodbye. It should be called as Bad-bye actually, i think.. Bad-bye is commonly be a melancholic and full of tears, and the best place to watch this melancholic event nowhere but airport! (remember adegan Cinta dan Rangga on AADC) Lol.

And talking about goodbye, me and other friends must sadly say goodbye to Twilight Saga, since it's come to the last part as the epic final. Honestly I'm not a big fans of Twilight Saga, but i follow the development of this story. For me, Twilight stories was began on around 2007 (i don't know when was Twilight officially published), it was my friend who recommended me to read the novel--that she said it's a really fantastic and can't stand for it. And I had a big expectation at the moment, and was thought it would be as gorgeous as Harry Potter, and badly to say, it wasn't. Too much drama for me.. But good news is, I still like it however I still prefer for Harry Potter. 

So I continuing to read the next part and also watching all the movie series, Twilight, New Moon, Eclipse, and Breaking Dawn. And in my opinion, the best part of Twilight Saga is Breaking Dawn. I like it the most from all the books, don't know why. Maybe because they get a adorable baby and there is a duel part on this movie? Haha.. And I proudly recommending for all people who watching or reading the previous movies or novels to not past this epic final! Everything and everyone are changing! See these photo progress (since I copy from Google, some of official posters are can't be copied. so I change it) :

I don't know how is your opinion from these poster, but for me, it is changing, and everyone on the movie are more beautiful, especially Bella Cullen (Kristen Steward) on this epic final: Breaking Dawn part 2, since she already become a vampire, her make up is so amazing. Her face is flawless, her eyes, eyebrows, nose and lips. Love it so much, and one more good news, she dressed very well on this movie (on previous, she too casual for me). And no doubt, Jacob Black (Taylor Lautner), still adorable as always on this movie <3>

I won't talk about the movie, coz I don't to be a spoiler, but if I can describe this movie with one words, it would be: errgghh. Hehehee... Believe me, this movie is the best from all Twilight Saga movies, and also so-errrghh. Watch it by yourself and u can find how errgh it is :D

  

Previosly, I never think this is a really good movie. I think it's too dramatic, bella too labil, and a bit non-sense. But this non-sense just remind me and force me to believe that eternal love does exist. Oh my God, I know I kind of a hard-hearted and a bit hard to be touched, but their struggle in defending their love is just amazingly touching me. And I can't describe with word, but love, is always and will always sacred. :)

So before I close this post, I will share the trailer of the epic final, and some of my fav ost of Twilight Saga Ost. from Youtube:

Trailer of Breaking Dawn part 2

 Flightless Bird, American Mouth - Iron and Wine

Carter Burwell - Bella's Lullaby

A Thousand Years - Christina Perry

Game as same as Life, Life as same as Game

Semua orang pasti suka main dong? Mulai dari permainan jadul nan simpel macam kelereng, congklak, sampe agak canggih macam gameboy atau tamagoci, dan PS1-PS2-PS3-PSP (well yg gw sebutin semua so last year yah), dan dengan berat hati dan sirik hati, iPad, maenan untuk anak-anak dibawah umur jaman sekarang. Omo, gw aja dulu kalo maen semua serba manual. Kalo mo maen masak-masakan yah beneran pake alat2 masak. Kalo anak sekarang kan tinggal simply donlot game macam cooking mama dan bermainlah mereka. Cuma tastenya beda deh.. Mending back to nature. Kalo kata sapa gitu di film Skyfall, kadang kembali cara lama lebih berguna atau lebih apa gitu lupa gw..

Nah, terus semuanya pasti pernah main atau minimal tau yah game Sims (oke, sebenernya gw malahan yang ga pernah main game ini. Gw pernah main game semacam ini, cuma bukan merek sims. heheh). Nah, yang mau gw bahas kali ini adalah tentang Sims. This game is related with our real life, or maybe this game is made based on our real life.  Yah bisa dibilang semacam itulah ya. So, Game as same as life, and life as same as game

Game macam Sims (since i never played it, but I think it just same with the kind of game i played, so i google what kind of game sih Sims ini, dan definisi wikipedia adalah, It is a simulation of the daily activities of one or more virtual persons ("Sims") in a suburban household near SimCity). Bearti ini adalah tipe game yang lu kaya membangun sebuah karakter. Bagaimana kita menciptakan suatu karakter yang kita mau, dan harus bertanggung jawab atas karakter yang mau kita bentuk itu. Kita harus bersosialisasi dengan karakter lain demi merealisasikan tujuan hidup dari karakter yang kita jalanin ini. Gw menggunakan game yang gw mainin aja deh ya, lupa judulnya apa, pokonya game di HP yang uda lama gw mainin sampe berulang-ulang dan baru terpancing untuk meliput sekarang ini.

Jadi kita musti perhatiin kesehatan kita, makan sehat yang biayanya agak mahal dan tidur cukup, kesehatan naik. Minum bir atau dugem, kesehatan menurun. Belajar, culture naik tapi humor turun. Nonton comedy, humor naik tapi culture turun. Bantu orang lain, kindness naik charisma juga naik. Jahat dikit aja, charisma dan kindness langsung turun jauh dan meningkatkan criminality. Saat kita masih baru newbie dimana semua categories ratenya masih rendah, orang-orang kalo diajak ngomong gitu-gitu aja ladenin kita, bahkan ada yang nyolot. Saat self-esteem, sex appeal, charisma naik, baru orang mulai lebih menghormati kita. Bahkan kalo kita uda full semua ratenya, kalo di kehidupan nyata mungkin kita uda jadi seorang yang sukses banget, semua orang baik cewe maupun cowok, baik yang pernah diajak ngobrol maupun ga pernah diajak ngobrol, semuanya pas kita lewat doang uda langsung nengok dan muncul emo love-love kagum gitu (di game gw yah ini, kalo sims gw ga tau).

Nah gimana sih caranya naikin tingkat self esteem, charisma dan sex appeal (3 unsur pokok dalem hidup)?

1. Self esteem

Self esteem atau yang biasa disebut dengan harga diri adalah hal paling pokok dan mendasar dari semua unsur. Kita harus punya harga diri yang tinggi biar bisa dihargai tinggi oleh orang lain, tapi bukan menjadi sombong. Cara ningkatin harga diri adalah dengan menjadi seorang yang pintar. Pintar dalam segala hal. Dalam pelajaran, dalam bergaul, dalam berbicara, dalam membawa diri, dalam mengatur diri dan berpenampilan. Karena orang yang akan kita menjalin hubungan itu berasal dari semua tipe. Mulai dari yang mementingkan knowledge, mementingkan kedisiplinan, mementingkan humor, mementingkan profesionalitas, mementingkan yang simpel, dan lain-lain. 

Kita harus punya sifat seperti kadal, yang bisa menyesuaikan diri dan mengubah diri sesuai dengan lingkungan, atau bahasa yang pernah diajarin sama temen gw adalah, mirroring. Kita bisa mirror menjadi seorang yang homoris saat berhadapan dengan orang yang suka bercanda. Kita bisa jadi orang yang berintelektual saat bertemu dengan orang yang pintar, dll. Intinya kita harus mengenali karakter orang yang akan kita ajak komunikasi. Ngobrol hal yang ia suka, rate self esteem, charisma dan hubungan kalian makin tinggi. Ngobrol hal yang ia ga suka, rate self esteem akan turun, dan hubungan menurun. Tapi jangan menjadi orang yang sok asik jadinya, sok-sok an ngerti dan ajak ngobrol tentang hal yang ia suka, padahal kita ga punya pengetahuan apa-apa dalem bidang itu, bukan cuma rate self esteem dan hubungan kalian yang turun, charisma juga akan turun pesat..

2. Charisma

Nah ini uda sempet disinggung dikit diatas, yang penting kalo kita uda punya self esteem, berarti untuk dapet karisma juga uda gampang. Caranya yang penting harus tau, atau bahkan bisa menguasai beberapa hal atau topik umum yang penting untuk diketahui, seperti politik, ekonomi, sport, dll. Jadi saat ketemu orang dengan hobi-hobi dan topik kesukaan umum ini, kita mudah untuk berkomunikasi dengan mereka dan meningkatkan karisma dimata mereka. Karisma biasanya tumbuh untuk hal-hal yang bersifat intelektual, bukan hal-hal yang hanya entertaining macam gosip.

3. Self appeal

Kalo self appeal uda pasti semua tau, yang penting berdandan rapi, ga menebarkan bau-bauan yang aneh, dan kalau yang uda dilahirin cantik, berbahagialah. Karena ini adalah unsur yang paling terberkati menurut gw. Saat lu dilahirin cantik, orang bawaannya seneng aja ngelihat dan ngomong sama lu. Jadi lu uda one step lebih mudah untuk grab their attention lah setidaknya. Tapi kalo kata orang bijak, semua orang dilahiri cantik, cantik on their own way. Cuma ga bermunafik, kecantikan fisik itu cukup mempengaruhi yah dalam membentuk kesan pertama (and everybody know that first impression is damn important). hahahaa..

Oke sekian pembahasan hari ini, semoga kita bisa meningkatkan ketiga unsur penting dalam hidup ini dan mencapai sukses, wuhuu.. see you babaii..